Tamara D. Block, Attorney at Law
Timely Topics and Discussion
I know estate planning doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world to do or think about. I know my kids definitely make fun of my work. However, if you are a history buff there can be some fun things to learn. In preparing for a presentation I have to give to my BNI group next week, I pulled up some fun items and provided a link on my home page to even more. Here are a few:
* The longest will known to have been filed in probate court is that of Frederica Evelyn Stilwell Cook. On November 2, 1925, this 1066-page document bounded into 4 leather-bound books filled with gilt-edged paper was filed at the Principal Probate Registry in London. Two of the books had 702 pages, and two books had 406 pages. This monstrous document had an inventory of all Ms. Cook's belongings, including jewelry, laces, furs, dressing bags, embroideries, and art. The majority of her belongings went to her children. The document also stated that her two executors were to bury her wedding ring with her in a grave with a tombstone that did not have her age inscribed on it. She also instructed her executors to burn her diaries.
* A few rich and famous people have died without having a valid will, and that has made things a little messy with their family members:
*If you live in Alberta, Canada, then when you get married your will becomes invalid. But if you get divorced, it will be valid again.
As the sun is out today and the weather is going to be warmer, we can be optimistic and know that spring is coming. I start to plan for all of the things I want to do outside to make the yard look beautiful and how we can enjoy the outdoors. I can't wait!
That is how we should all look at planning - yes, I know it is a stretch :). However, if we look at our estate planning, tax planning, retirement planning and education planning as something that is positive and will allow us to enjoy our future time with out families, it makes it easier to tackle. After I complete an estate planning process with a client, I so often hear, "I am so glad that I got this done. I feel so much better and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be." If you find the right attorney and the right financial advisor, these are the feelings you should have.
My advice is to take the time to reach out to two or three attorneys or financial advisors before you jump in to the process. Make sure they are a good fit with yours and your family's personality. Ask them questions about how they work with their clients. It is not just about the price you will eventually pay - it will be higher or lower, depending on the professional advisors. This is the person you should be making a long term commitment to work with and you don't want it to be miserable every time you have to meet with them.
You are planting the garden and tending the yard for yours and your family's future - make sure to enjoy the sowing and the weather, not dreading the "work" that is to come!
It is the start of 2018 and I am relaunching a business that I have had for 15 years! I am so excited to begin this journey and it is an interesting time to begin it with the new tax reform. After 15 years of having a part-time legal practice and non-profit consulting, I am going in to my practice full time. I have been so thankful to have clients that have supported me throughout the years and I look forward to building relationships with new clients to help them realize their goals. As the year goes on, continue to look to this blog for timely topic discussions!