Tamara D. Block, Attorney at Law
Timely Topics and Discussion
It's been a while since I have posted in my blog! No excuses other than life gets busy. Ahh - that sounds like some of my clients, especially this time of year with tax season, spring cleaning, travel, etc. Even I am guilty of it! Although estate planning is so important, only a little over half of the population even have a simple will, let alone a health care directive or power of attorney. And, the ramifications for not having these for your family can be catastrophic. We have all heard the stories - probate lasts for years, health care decisions have to be deferred until court approval ... And, we all mean to get it done, but it is one of those urgent, not important items on your list. However, it is one of the best things you can do for your family. You may live to be 100 years old, but why take that risk? I tell my clients, "You are not doing this for you, but for your loved ones." Please take the time to make sure they don't have to deal with legal issues while they are also dealing with grief, or struggling to help you with a health situation - the best gift you can give is stability!
The holidays are a great time to spend with family and to try to fit in some relaxation. It is also a great time to start your estate planning. I know you are asking, "Why do I want to think of something so serious and sometimes depressing during this time?" There are a couple of reasons. At the holidays you are more likely to be seeing family that you might need to have conversations with regarding whether or not they would be willing to be your personal representative or guardian. It's also a time where all of your children may be with you and you can share what you have planned. Or, it might be a great time for a gifting strategy to help with estate tax planning. The best part about it is that you get a head start on a New Year's Resolution - if you start now you will be finished in January and will be able to mark it off of your resolution list. However, the best reason for doing your planning during the holiday season is because it is a gift. Remember, estate planning is not truly going to benefit you - it is a benefit and gift to your loved ones. Happy Holidays and safe travels wherever you may go during this holiday season!
In Minnesota, August is a big vacation time. I aways stay in Minnesota, except for when I go home to visit my family in South Dakota, because I want to soak in all of the wonderful summer weather, but many people travel while the kids are out of school. This August has been interesting! I have had a number of people reach out to me that are leaving for two to three week vacations and that is driving them to do their estate plans. It is a great time to get your estate planning done and your reward is your vacation. So, if you are looking at traveling in the next few months, reach out to an attorney and make sure things are taken care of before you travel - get that extra piece of mind!
I know estate planning doesn't seem like the most fun thing in the world to do or think about. I know my kids definitely make fun of my work. However, if you are a history buff there can be some fun things to learn. In preparing for a presentation I have to give to my BNI group next week, I pulled up some fun items and provided a link on my home page to even more. Here are a few:
* The longest will known to have been filed in probate court is that of Frederica Evelyn Stilwell Cook. On November 2, 1925, this 1066-page document bounded into 4 leather-bound books filled with gilt-edged paper was filed at the Principal Probate Registry in London. Two of the books had 702 pages, and two books had 406 pages. This monstrous document had an inventory of all Ms. Cook's belongings, including jewelry, laces, furs, dressing bags, embroideries, and art. The majority of her belongings went to her children. The document also stated that her two executors were to bury her wedding ring with her in a grave with a tombstone that did not have her age inscribed on it. She also instructed her executors to burn her diaries.
* A few rich and famous people have died without having a valid will, and that has made things a little messy with their family members:
*If you live in Alberta, Canada, then when you get married your will becomes invalid. But if you get divorced, it will be valid again.
As the sun is out today and the weather is going to be warmer, we can be optimistic and know that spring is coming. I start to plan for all of the things I want to do outside to make the yard look beautiful and how we can enjoy the outdoors. I can't wait!
That is how we should all look at planning - yes, I know it is a stretch :). However, if we look at our estate planning, tax planning, retirement planning and education planning as something that is positive and will allow us to enjoy our future time with out families, it makes it easier to tackle. After I complete an estate planning process with a client, I so often hear, "I am so glad that I got this done. I feel so much better and it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be." If you find the right attorney and the right financial advisor, these are the feelings you should have.
My advice is to take the time to reach out to two or three attorneys or financial advisors before you jump in to the process. Make sure they are a good fit with yours and your family's personality. Ask them questions about how they work with their clients. It is not just about the price you will eventually pay - it will be higher or lower, depending on the professional advisors. This is the person you should be making a long term commitment to work with and you don't want it to be miserable every time you have to meet with them.
You are planting the garden and tending the yard for yours and your family's future - make sure to enjoy the sowing and the weather, not dreading the "work" that is to come!
It is the start of 2018 and I am relaunching a business that I have had for 15 years! I am so excited to begin this journey and it is an interesting time to begin it with the new tax reform. After 15 years of having a part-time legal practice and non-profit consulting, I am going in to my practice full time. I have been so thankful to have clients that have supported me throughout the years and I look forward to building relationships with new clients to help them realize their goals. As the year goes on, continue to look to this blog for timely topic discussions!